The Best Act of Love Is To Listen

salam.

I have friends, not many but a significant few that would ask me 'hi how are you?' , occasionally or too frequent, both are in my favor.

Because I just realized that, not many are privilleged to have friends that are genuinely interested to know whether you are okay living life.

There was one time, while I was waiting for my flight alone, alone and nervous prior to boarding, I received a call that asked me whether I am already boarding, did my flight delayed, and just random conversation of what we had for lunch and how sleep deprieved we were. I tried to remain calm but deep inside I know this kind of friend is gem. Because she was calling me, to know about me, the fact that I am not okay would worry her.

I have another gem friend too that would call at odd hour just to chat about how bored we were, or how happy we were when we reached office earlier than usual and how inspiring an article that we encountered on the internet or the common-est of all, how uncomfortable we were when we received unpleasant remarks.

And another sweet gesture is when we are always in the invitation list of our friend's every trip. :)

Sweetest of all is, have a friend or friends that silently pray for your wellbeing. She talk to God about you, requesting something that would benefit you and not her,  expect nothing but blessing from God in return.

Because our relationship is mutual, both are playing parts in listening.

So when is your last time you said hi to your friend and listened to her with genuine interest?