Favourite Time

I don't know about others, but I am not persuaded by advice that makes me feel bad and  even worse than what I already am, example 'You are so bad, I have no idea you could do such thing. You know there is no room in heaven for people like you'. 

 I like the advice to be soothing, uplifting like,  'Okay maybe you have done bad thing now, but you know you are still breathing and there is always room for improvement, so waste no time and change for better now, don't wallow in self-pity and gain nothing. You can do it, :)'