One of close friend come to me and told me how her life hasn't been as her plan. Everything seems derailed. At one point she even feel a next day is just another day that if a skip button is there, she would press that on repeat for every 24 hours.
I think one of many reasons to make good friends because good friends will pray for their friends, secretly. On top of listen. The best act of love is listen, I've read that somewhere, maybe second best after pray good wish, secretly.
One more thing, to control my feeling. I should remind myself that when others are sharing their good news, I should be happy instead of comparing their happiness to mine. Happiness can't be measured. Maybe there are time when we are less sensitive, and there will be situation when a lean girl complaining her weight gain to a struggling overweight girl (this is only analogy, you know how it goes).
But they are sharing good news. (Although too much sharing on the net is not good, imply that a person appreciate appreciation from virtual circle rather than real people that close to them or Lord).
So when a person shares their good news, say Alhamdulillah and be happy for our friend. When our wish are granted from the Almighty, say Alhamdulillah first in our prayer or heart rather than making essay on fb, twitter or ig. We wouldn't want to be the less sensitive friend, even worse to be someone who is forget to be grateful to the 'lender' of our temporary gift.
I really don't know where is this essay going and I can't conclude this essay because I am a bit tired. Bye and good night!
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