Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Where Pain Was, Healing Could Come

Last day before Ramadhan came, I spent my whole day reading 'How To Fall in Love' by Cecilia Ahern. I have bought the book for a week but only managed to read first page every night and off I went to slumberland, and repeating the page again the next day. Not until Saturday, I have started reading in the morning and finished the book within Saturday too. 

Whether this book is too good or I like the storyline too much. (Or I was just too free?)

But you guys don't get me wrong. The title of the book might suggesting that I need to learn how to fall in love, haha but of course I know that. The book is about how to fall in love with life actually. Highly recommended. 

In between my daily activities, I read 'Don't Sweat the Small Stuff for Women'. Wow can't really believe that I am referring myself as a woman now. As one with constant need of reminder on how to handle life, I manage to pick one or two useful tips  that helps me to feel better. 

- Avoid waking up with scrolling others' update ( Twitter, Instagram or Facebook) as we might absorb the bad vibes causing our energy level drained to soon in the morning. 

- Communicate. As a woman, we usually go around telling our problem involving A with our other friend, Z and hoping the problem will be solved like that. 😑😑

- When our friend come to us with their problem, most of the times she (I?) just want to be heard. Allow her to be human, cut some slacks, don't be critical, don't point out her mistakes and suggesting way out (when she is not requesting) and listen. 

Need to drive now, bye! 

Have a better Ramadhan everyone, In Sha Allah Amin. :)


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